Let’s take a look at one more critical difference between training for athletics/military and training for well-being.
Athletes and military professionals need to train right at the edge of a very fine line between improving skills and risking injury. Athletes and their coaches find that line and push the body as close as possible to that line, in order to stay in the competition. Step over that line and injury risk is greater than the training benefit.
This type of training does not consider what the body will be able to do ten or twenty years from now. It is focused on the next level, improving by pushing that limit as much as possible. There is only so long the body can sustain that type of training. At some point, an athlete needs to retire from competition, or at least semi-retire and take a few steps back from that line if they want to keep moving.
In training for well-being, choosing the level to train at considers what is needed to be well right now, as well as for the rest of our lives. This type of training does not require pushing to that risk/benefit ratio line. To the contrary, part of training for well-being is listening to the body to know when we are stepping too close to that line because we know an injury keeps us on the sidelines of life rather than out enjoying life. Training to be well considers how we feel, now as well as decades from now, by preventing injury, illness, and disease as much as possible. “Retire” from this plan too early, and that risk along with the rate of aging ramps up…fast!!!
Training for well-being means we find the types of movement that give us energy rather than drain it. You might be one who needs more adventurous types of physical activity, such as skiing or rock climbing. Remembering it is more important to be well than excel at that activity keeps it energizing and the risk/benefit ratio in check.
Bottom Line: It is not necessarily the activity, but the attitude that makes training for well-being so sustainable. The ultimate goal is to feel better on the inside, not be better through some external goal. Let’s stay aware of activities that are more about proving ourselves instead of being ourselves, because when it is more about well-doing, it takes us away from well-being.
Over the past few years, I’ve noticed the attitude of no, pain no gain, look better, be better, push harder, ignore the body, trick the body, is so enmeshed in the world of fitness we often don’t even see it! The confusion over these two very different ways of training the body has made exercise stressful (which is ironic because when we are stressed, the body preparing to move!). Even the word exercise overwhelms many people, which drains motivation in the long run, causing them to miss out on the great benefits of fitness for well-being.
In my first online video workshop, Unleash Your Superpower of Calm, I’ve incorporated information and tools to guide you through the process of resetting your approach to being healthy and well – an approach that works with the way the mind and body are designed to work, based on mind and body sciences. This workshop is foundational for finding the way out of the confusion and stress of “trying to be healthy” and discovering how you can be well now!
Be Well Now,